For Women: How to Use a Vibrator for Solo Play

A vibrator is the most popular adult sex toy for solo play as well as for partner sex. This device gives your sensitive zones fantastic enjoyments which cannot be achieved in any other way. That's why those who never tried a nice vibe should should do that with a partner or when alone.

Perhaps, it's a good idea to give it the first try when alone and to introduce your vibe to the partner only after that. By using a vibrator for masturbation you can experiment and realize what speed of vibrations you love most and what kind of stimulation you prefer. Also you can explore your body, find out more about your sexual response, learn to achieve orgasm if you never had one and you can use these experience to make sex with your partner more exciting.

Naturally, men and women, use vibrators in different ways due to a certain discrepancy in their physiology. So, how do women use a vibrator for solo play?

How to use a vibrator externally?

There is a great variety of vibrators that can be used for external (nipple or clitoral) stimulation. Since each of the types has its peculiarities, the vibes are used in different ways.

Traditional and handheld clitoral vibrators. Hand-held clitoral vibrators are designed specially for clitoral stimulation. Traditional vibrators are insertable and are designed mostly for internal stimulation, but these also can be used to stimulate the clitoris.

Perhaps you are not likely to enjoy it at first try since finding the best for speed and intensity of vibration requires a great deal of experiment.

Find how to use traditional and hand held vibrators:

• Lie on your back and press the head of the vibe against or near the clitoris.
• Turn on the vibe and concentrate on your sensations.
• If vibrations seem to be too intense, than reduce the speed.
• If you still find vibrations too intense, place a towel over the surface area of the sex toy.
• In case vibrations are not intense enough, you should turn up the speed or increase the pressure of the sex toy against your body.
• It is up to you whether to use a sex lubricant or not. If you somehow feel uncomfortable you can consider adding some amount of lubricant (preferably water-based one) to your vibrator play.

Butterfly vibrators. These vibes are meant for hands-free clitoral stimulation.

Butterfly vibrators are very easy to use:

• Position the vibe so that to have the butterfly's eyes face the clitoris.
• Draw the longer strap around the waist or leg and secure it .
• Turn on the remote control and let the vibe work the magic.

Our recommendations. With this vibe you are sure to achieve great clitoral orgasm. Since your hands are free you can use a butterfly vibe together with an insertable vibrator or a dildo.

Vibrating nipple clamps.

Vibrating nipple clamps have a cord with a battery pack and are easy to use:

• Tease your nipples with fingers until they are hard
• Clamp on each nipple and turn on the control
• Experiment with speeds of vibration and enjoy fantastic nipple stimulation!

Our recommendations. Vibrating nipple clamps can be used along with some other sex toy. Clitoral vibrator, traditional vibrator or a dildo are just a few to name.

How to use a vibrator internally

Plenty of various insertable vibrators make it possible to choose the one to give you maximum pleasure.

Traditional vibrators.

• Relax before giving a try to any kind of insertable vibrator you should . It is up to you how to do that: take a bath, listen to chill out music, have a little wine or do something else that calms you down and helps to achieve complete relaxation.
• Lie down and position yourself comfortably. Turn yourself on the way you like: stimulate your external erogenous zones with fingers or a vibrator. When you feel you are hot enough take the vibrator.
• To insert it easier apply a certain amount of lubricant to the vibe. You'd better use a water-based or a silicone-based lubricant, since oil-based one damages sex toys and condoms. Keep in mind that silicone-based lubricants are incompatible with silicone sex toys.
• Insert the vibe slowly and gradually and turn it on.
• Concentrate on your sensations and experiment with speeds of vibrations. This will allow you to find your own rhythm. Also try to experiment with depth of penetration and mild or intense plunging.

Our recommendation. For more enjoyment you can use a hands-free vibe for clitoral stimulation (for instance butterfly vibrator) simultaneously.

G-spot vibrators. This vibrator gives you a chance to locate and stimulate your G-spot in the best way. A vibrator is curved to reach your hidden sensitive spot.

• Before stimulating the G-spot with a vibe, try to locate it with your finger. To do this insert a finger in the vagina and explore the front of the vaginal wall by pressing down the stomach area. You should find a spot that swells when pressed and causes desire to urinate.
• If succeeded, go on stimulating this area until you feel pleasant sensations.
• After locating the G-spot, position the vibrator so that its head would press against the spot and turn the vibe on. Again you should experiment with speeds of vibrations and depth of penetration in order to achieve best results.

Our recommendation. Keep in mind that full bladder might cause unpleasant sensations during stimulation of G-spot. That is why it is a good idea to empty the bladder before playing with a G-spot vibrator. Use a sex lubricant to provide easier penetration and better glide.

Egg and bullet vibrators.

Egg and bullet vibrators are very easy to use:

• Insert an egg or a bullet in the vagina (like a tampon)
• Turn it on and enjoy experiments with vibrations.

Our recommendations. Since some vibes of this kind consist of two eggs or bullets, you can use one of the items for internal stimulation. A sex lubricant required.

Some more tips on how to use vibrators:

1. Always use a water-based lubricant with an insertable vibrator
2. Never use a vibrator in water unless it is waterproof
3. Make sure you have fresh batteries handy, otherwise your play might stop at the most exciting moment
4. Wash the vibrator after each use with warm water and soap or with a special sex toy cleaner
5. Never insert a vibrator in the vagina after you have inserted it in the anus
6. Use condoms on insertable sex toys for better hygiene

Do use vibrators for an awesome solo play! No sexual dissatisfaction if you have a vibe that is always ready to please you without objections!