Female Sexuality

Sexuality is one's attitude towards intimate matters and also includes sexual desire and the ability to fulfill it. The common belief prevails that sex is not important and necessary in a woman’s life. They say that only men have enhanced libido, enjoy sex and use sex toys. That is absolutely not true!

In the past century, a woman’s "coldness" was considered a kind of norm and even a sign of good morals. If a woman doesn’t have an orgasm for years she may think there is nothing wrong with her sexuality. There has always been more pressure put on a man’s sexuality than a woman’s. Though a woman’s body and physiological functions haven’t changed over the years the amount of women who are more satisfied in there sexual life has increased dramatically. The reason for such change lies in better sex education, wide access to relevant information and more positive attitudes toward their sexuality.

What does a woman’s sexuality depend on?

Female libido as well as sexual satisfaction to a great extent depends on psychological factors such as feelings towards her partner or the sense of pride of being the object of someone's affection. She needs more erotic stimulation like hugs, kisses, kind words and stimulation from sex toys. A partner's personality, mannerisms, behavior and attitude are a bigger turn on for women than men.

Woman orgasm

Most women don’t experience orgasm the first time they have sex but after gaining some time. Women need to accumulate a certain sexual experience, a study of her own body and erotic response before she enjoys and relaxes enough to orgasm. Development of a female’s sexual response is likely to depend on the age she started having sex rather than the start of her first menstruation.

Women are know to have a number of erogenous zones whereas men’s erogenous zones are largely limited to the are around their genitals. This is a large reason why women experience longer and more intense orgasms. After the initial orgasm a woman can have a second, third or forth. The pause between orgasms can be very small if she uses sex toys simultaneously while being penetrated. These multiple orgasms became more intense and powerful while a man’s subsequent orgasms became weaker.

Many women say that their orgasms feel like "waves" that flow all over their bodies instead of being felt in one area. Women can also feel quite satisfied without having to climax.