Movies as a Sex Guide (Part I)

Do you love watching beautiful and very passionate sex scenes in movies? I bet, you do. And I bet that sometimes you think of doing the same in reality. Movies are a real Sex Guide for those who want to turn their love life into a miracle! Positions, techniques, dialogs: watch and learn how real stars make love! However, be aware that sometimes mere imitation of the actions of the protagonists brings no good.

Every time movies inspire you for sex experiments, keep in mind that movies are movies and life is life.

Nine ½ Weeks

Here you can see realization of one of most popular fantasies: to lick something sweet off the partner's naked body. When the movie was released, Mikey Rourke said in his interviews that he was sick after a few takes. This is quite natural, since the “sweet” scene took eight (!) jars of honey (not to mention some additional foods like grapes and pepper).

So, if you decided to choose this way of spicing up your relationships, keep in mind that most men do not like sweeties, and even the fact that cream or honey is to be licked off the seductive body of the beloved woman, does not mean that the man is eager to do that. Doesn't your boyfriend have a sweet tooth? In this case do not try to be exactly like Mickey Rourke and Kim Basinger and offer to your lover another dinner: for example, ketchup.

Does he like sweeties? That's also fine. The main thing is not to practice “sweet tongue massage” too often, as it might cause caries and obesity. Also beware that honey makes your skin smooth.

Zandalee

Film-makers seem not to care about the fact that 99 percent of humans mostly make love in the bed. They think (and they seem to be right) that this is too boring and they suggest an alternative variant: sex in inappropriate conditions. For instance, in gateway in the rain, like in Zandalee. In this scene the female protagonist moans and groans in the arms of Nicolas Cage. In reality sex in such conditions does not seem to be enjoyable. First of all, you both will feel uncomfortable, to say the least of it, and secondly you both are likely to catch a cold (not to mention other complications).

By the way, previously mentioned Nine ½ weeks also features a sex scene where Kim and Mickey make love on stairs in the rain. I don't recommend you to take their example. Sex on the stairs will bring nothing but blacks-and-blues.

Postman Always Rings Twice

One more interesting scene: sex in the grass. I think that making love on a blanket is much better as grass is often hard, thorny and full of insects that sting very painfully. Are you sure you will enjoy such kind of sex?

Basic Instinct

Scenes containing elements of BDSM is a must have for any erotic thriller. You certainly remember sex scenes from the famous Basic Instinct. The plot is very easy to imitate: everyone has a bed and a white scarf (or a scarf of another color). However, you should keep in mind that such experiments with a strangers are quite dangerous.

Opinions of psychologists differ. Some of them say that moderate violation helps a woman to get rid of complexes and fears. Other psychologists are convinced that the very look of a helpless (tied up) man can provokes aggression. They recommend to try such things with someone whom you trust, and who never seemed to have mental disorders . If you are not quite sure about the state of the psyche of your lover, than hide all sharp objects (for instance, ice-picks).

One more tip: if you feel like adding a bit of thrill in your love life, never use homemade BDSM accessories! Do use special BDSM toys, otherwise you are at risk to get in a hospital. Would you like to continue your experiments there?

Last Tango in Paris

The authors of this movie are determined to prove that a woman can achieve orgasm through violent anal sex. Marlon Brando and Maria Schneider are outstanding actors, and they managed to convince the viewers in believability of what was happening on the screen. Never take their example!

First of all you must be aware, that violent anal sex leads to nothing but severe pain and injuries. You certainly know that such sex activity requires complete relaxation that is out of the question when violence takes place. So think carefully before surprising your girlfriend through such peculiar way!

The protagonists of this movie used butter for better glide. Never do that! First of all, butter might cause inflammation in the anus, and secondly, butter damages latex – do you always have non-latex condoms handy? (I hope you have no questions concerning the necessity of using a condom for anal sex!) Always use special sex lubes!