How to satisfy a modern woman?

Men are sure most women know nothing about sex and cannot do anything in bed properly. What is more, they claim they are professionals in this field. But there is a difference between claiming something and reality, is not it? Why women are not pleased with men's sex behavior? May be they have some certain reasons for being dissatisfied with men?

So what a modern man must know and be able to do to satisfy a modern woman?

Petting

Sex without foreplay can be pleasurable, but in most cases you will not avoid petting. Keep in mind that if a woman does not like the way you caress her, she is very unlikely to continue what you began doing. May be she will not turn you out, but even do not hope to see her again.

First of all, find out what your girlfriend likes most. Paradoxically enough, all women are different and things a woman considers pleasurable are very likely to be unpleasant for another.

Let us begin with kisses. Dear man, why do you think your girlfriend should enjoy being covered with your saliva? Do not you know that spitting is impolite?

Most women like gentle biting, but only gentle and tender, without pain and consequences. Do not bite her nipples! This is an erogenous and a very sensitive zone!

Ladies enjoy stroking. Some of them would like you to use your penis instead of your palms, but they are ashamed of speaking about such a preference. Fulfill her wish! We hope she is polite enough and will not begin beating you if she does not like what you are doing.

Cunillingus

Believe it or not, it is much easier to satisfy orally a man than a woman. There are ladies who do not reach orgasm when being caressed with lips and tongue, whereas it is even impossible to spoil fellatio.

I can write a huge book about how a man should not perform cunillingus. Let us briefly mention some key points.

First of all, write on a sheet a paper the following phrase: "Clitoris is a very sensitive zone, rather than a piece of meat which should be eaten immediately!" and stick this sheet of paper somewhere where you can often see it. Do you remember what I said about nipple biting? You should bite nipples gently. What to clitoris, you should not bite it at all. Caress it with your lips and tongue – this always works.

Secondly, not only clitoris likes being caressed, therefore be gentle to other parts of her genitals.

Thirdly, you can use your fingers not only to part the labia. Find more details in the next chapter.

Fingering

To begin with, please, answer my question: Why the hell you try to insert the whole your arm into your partner's vagina? Don't you know that such a deep penetration is impossible or at least very painful? Why do you think your partner should like such things? Or may be you are ashamed of your short penis and want go satisfy her in such a strange way?

Does your girlfriend mind fingering? I bet her previous boyfriend was a crazy sex experimenter. Be careful. Begin with one finger, than add another one. What should you do when being inside? No tips, you are not a kid. Your girlfriend's reaction will suggest you a good idea. Can you insert all your fingers? Does she enjoy this? That’s fine. But if she does not, do not be as persistent and stubborn as a donkey.

Important note. Please, do not forget to cut your nails. Long nails will add some sensations, but exclusively unpleasant ones.

Your sex, madam!

Now let us speak about the most important things.

Dear gentlemen! You claim you are perfect lovers, all your women were grateful to you for enormous pleasure you gave them. But when you begin proving what you say in bed your professionalism disappears somewhere: two minutes and you groan with pleasure whereas your partner has to mention your name in her list titled "no orgasm".

vDo you remember what I said about clitoris? Write down another phrase "Women love orgasms!". Good sex is supposed to be pleasant for you both. Otherwise you can use your hand instead of a woman – anyway you will cum.

Therefore try to find out information about your partner’s favorite positions, motions, adult toys (by the way do you know that most women love adult toys?) and other things which can make your sex better. Believe me, your efforts will not be in vain.

Sex is not a championship where the participants should strive for being the first. Therefore do not try to talk your girlfriend out of being above you. And of course, do not hurry. You will certainly achieve orgasm, but do this only after you make sure your partner is satisfied. Did you cum simultaneously? That’s fine!

Anal sex

Oh, gentlemen! What are you doing? Did you forget that this…hole is not intended for penetration? Do you know that you have nothing to do there without proper lubrication? Will you mind inserting your finger first? Your manhood is so huge! Will you make your partner's anus ready for being penetrated by a bigger object?

Anal sex is pleasurable for both partners, if they are aware of some certain rules which must be followed. Don't you have a condom and a lubricant? Than do not spoil pleasure. Try other type of sex.

It is known that the anus is narrower than the vagina. Therefore in the beginning avoid too energetic motions. And do not be too persistent. If your girlfriend minds what you are doing, than forget about anal sex and entertain her in some other way.

Actually, you can make her like anal sex. May be she even does not suppose that anal stimulation can be pleasurable. Suggest her trying some anal adult toys: butt plugs or anal beads. She might like them, and if she does, than she certainly will allow you to penetrate her anus. By the way: do you think that only women and gays like anal stimulation? This is a wrong idea. Try anal adult toys together with your girlfriend: you will find out that you have more erogenous zones than you thought. What is more, you will show your girlfriend that anal sex is a pleasure, rather than a torture. She will love it!

P.S. Perhaps you would like to ask me "Why do you explain so simple things to us? Is not everything you mentioned evident?" Yes, it is. But may be you will realize that women who deny you have some certain reasons for doing this? May be you will stop making the same mistakes? Lead a new sex life and be happy!