How to prolong his pleasure

Many men don't let their partner rule the erotic play or aren't simply used to getting pleasure from a woman. But you may well change the situation. Once he learns to relax and let himself be a receiver, he will become even more grateful to you.

You can obtain a high degree of sexual fulfillment practicing such form of sexual interaction as prolonging orgasm. There are a lot of techniques, which were developed to control ejaculation. But what we really intend to explore here is to rule the intercourse in your own direction. The orgasm which is followed by such prolonging technique is usually very intense and unforgettable.

Maintaining erection

It is not obvious for your partner to have a strong erection once he got in intimate atmosphere. Many men need additional stimulation of their penis in order to maintain erection, the more if he is not in his twenties.

When you use the usual way of manual stimulation, you wrap your fingers around the penis to form a ring, at the same time placing your thumb on the head of the shaft. It is better to perform a more intense contracting on the penis during the initial stage as most nerve endings are concentrated in the area of the penis head. This is a good a way to stimulate penis and increase erection.

Press on it quite hard to make blood flow away. Form one more living ring around the penis with the fingers of the other hand and try to move the one hand up to the head and the other one keep at the base. You may variegate such stimulation beginning at the middle of the penis and moving both hands in opposite directions.

Prostate stimulation

Many women are not familiar with such hidden area of male anatomy as prostate gland. Yet, prostate gland is often compared with G-spot(one of the hottest female erogenous zones) which is equally sensitive to various kinds of stimulation. It can be quite useful to know the actual location and anatomic peculiarities of prostate gland before you are into such exploration. You may reach prostate gland from the anus just in front of the rectum.

It is important to discuss your plans beforehand as your partner may be not the one to accept such experiments unquestionably.

If you try to introduce a finger or sex toy in anal area you will feel that inside muscles will contract in reflexive manner. Simple in-out movements are quite enough for prostate stimulation.

Prolonging erection

When erection is maintained, you may begin stimulating his scrotum and the area between the penis and anus, called perineum. You may variegate stimulation of this area, including stretching of the scrotum. Many women avoid touching partner's testicles as they got used to think this area is easily susceptible to pain. This is quite true, except that during the sexual arousal they get enlarged and become less sensitive to pain.

Stretching of the scrotum is very effective in prolonging his erection and delaying ejaculation. If you want to free you hands for penis stimulation only, you may use cock ring. This sex toy is meant to imitate same technique and keep his cocks hard.

Another way to stimulate your partner is to press your fingers against the external area of prostate. Constant pressure is very enjoyable; the same can be said for simultaneous rhythmical stimulation of the penis with the prostate. Watch his reaction. If you press too much -he may back off, otherwise he may want for more if you do it slightly.

Third way to prolong his pleasure is called pinching of the perineum in the area where prostate gland is located. You may just press your index finger against the external side of prostate gland wrapping your thumb at the base of the shaft. When you feel that your partner is going to climax you should take a pause and stop stimulating his penis if you intend to lengthen time of his pleasure. Don't try to break the record if you feel tired. On the other hand you may use sex toys to solve this problem.

Watching his reaction

You should control his ejaculation in order to increase or reduce stimulation. It's up to you to choose the right time for him to ejaculate, but don't bring your partner to frustration as he should feel pleasure, not the control himself. After you practice prolonging erection technique, you will become more familiar with his reactions and teach your partner achieve more intense and powerful orgasm.