How to make her enjoy anal sex (part II)

Well, your partner agreed to be penetrated with your little finger. What comes next? Do not hurry. Practice fingering again and again until she gets used to this part of foreplay and stops considering anal sex to be a taboo. Now you can pass to something thicker that resembles your penis better than your little finger. What can it be?

This can be your forefinger, but we suggest you using another thing. Do you remember that in the previous article we promised you to speak about such anal toys as butt plugs? Do try this anal toy before getting down to anal sex.

What is a butt plug?

A butt plug is a sex toy designed specially for insertion in the anus. People use butt plugs for various purposes. Some people love to insert the butt plug and then to move it, especially if the butt plug is a textured one. However, most people prefer to insert the butt plug in the anus and leave it there. They make love with a butt plug in their anus or simply go shopping, or do some other things and enjoy the sensation of fullness in the anus.

After your girlfriend realizes that anal penetration can be pleasurable she is likely to agree to try a butt plug. You can even buy a butt plug together. Let her choose the anal toy herself, but let her choosing a thin butt plug, a one that will suit her anus that has never had anything inside it. And necessarily buy an anal lube together with the butt plug. Anal lube must be used with any kind of anal toy.

What should you do after insertion? Actually, you will not have to do anything especial. Just make love as you are used to. Stimulate her erogenous zones, give her oral pleasure, penetrate her vagina and move until you both orgasm. The main thing is to make your girlfriend associate anal penetration with pleasure. After some time she will realize that having an object in the anus is very pleasurable. Only after that can you try anal sex as it is, we mean anal intercourse.

First attempt

Does she want to go further? Yes, she does, but she worries about some quite natural things. She does not want to make you dirty. Do not argue and put on a condom. And do not forget about lubrication - put anal lube both on your penis and her orifice.

Your partner should stand on her knees with breasts touching the hips. Stand on your knees and tenderly touch her orifice with the tip of your penis. Let her do next motions, ask her to make circular motions with her buttocks towards you. As soon as she begins doing that move forward, but not too aggressively. At this moment the glans of your penis must penetrate the anus. But do not begin using your penis like you would if you penetrated the vagina. Wait a little. Anal sex requires a great deal of pauses. Pauses here are even more important than active moments.

Say as many tender words as you can. Let her know this is she who rules the game. She must know you will make no motion until she permits you to do that. And do not squeeze her buttocks. Instead stimulate her clitoris. We remind you - she should associate anal sex with pleasure.

Anus is much narrower than any vagina, so you do not have to move your penis intensively in order to get pleasure. Such narrowness itself is very arousing, and such fullness causes pulsation that is inevitably felt in the vagina. So be slow and gentle and do not try to insert the whole your penis. You will do that some other time. It can take you a week or even a month or more to reach the bottom. Do everything step by step and remember - a woman who will allow you to insert an inch tomorrow will allow you to insert 1,5 inches.

After some time you will be able to perform anal intercourse, but nevertheless keep in mind that your motions should not be as fast and intensive as during vaginal intercourse. You must be as gentle as possible.

By the way, the suggested position is not the only one. Anal sex, as well as vaginal implies various positions. Experiment and you will find your favorite one!