Introduction to Oral Sex

Perhaps there is no person who does not love receiving oral pleasure. Oral sex is considered to be one of the most enjoyable kinds of sexual activity. However, some people are deprived of this incredible pleasure due to many reasons. Their partner might be shy, education, complexes, disgust or fear of not know what to do.

Your partner can use a clitoral vibrator or an oral sex imitator. But nothing can be more pleasurable than your partner's lips and tongue! Nearly all barriers can be overcome provided you wish to introduce oral sex into your life.

We aren’t insisting that everyone should practice oral sex because nothing should be done against someone’s will. However, oral sex can add a great deal of piquancy to your sex life.

What to begin with?

First of all, you should make sure there is a great deal of trust between you and your partner. People love giving oral pleasure to those whom they love and whom they trust. Are you sure your partner isn’t going to be insulted by your suggestion to try oral sex? If you aren’t don’t rush things. Wait until you are more comfortable with each other.

The best way to introduce oral sex into your sex life is by performing it on your partner but don’t demand it from them. Your partner will feel your care and your wish to make him or her happy. Thus your beloved partner will realize that oral sex is a way to show his or her care and love for you. Show your love! Enjoy your partner's pleasure!

Some people refuse oral sex because of lack of the necessary skill. This also has to do with your relationship and the trust between you and your partner. If you trust and love your partner you will never be afraid. Learn how to give oral pleasure to each other together.

Of course, there is a considerable difference between cunillingus (oral sex performed on a woman) and fellatio (oral sex performed on a man). Below we are going to speak about the differences

Men love fellatio

Men love fellatio and not only because of the pleasure. Fellatio means something more for them. Their fantastic sensations are evoked not only by the process itself but also by feeling their partner's love, her desire to please her man.

Here are a few tips on performing fellatio.

You can begin with kissing your partner's penis. Men love any oral caress, but take into account that the head is much more sensitive than the shaft. You can begin with kissing the shaft and gradually move up to the head. Expecting greater pleasure will make him greatly aroused.

Than try to suck in his head or to take it in your mouth and make bowing motions until he cums. You can also try using your hand and mouth at the same time.

After ejaculation some women take the penis out of their mouth and stroke the man’s penis. Others weaken their lips causing the sperm to leak out the mouth. Some women swallow the sperm. None of the variants of a woman's behavior is the evidence of love or depravity.

Men hate it when:

• 1. You suck the penis without stroking it or tenderly caressing it with your lips.
• 2. You touch the penis with your teeth. The tip is very sensitive. Most men don’t like their penises to be cut or chewed on.
• 3. You give attention only to his penis and ignore other parts of the body. Don’t forget about his chest, neck, legs and other body parts. He wants you to want all of him.

Last but not the least, find a minute to let your partner know you love him.

Women love it. Cunillingus.

What’s more, many women can only experience a clitoral orgasm, that can be achieved through cunillingus. Manually stimulate the clitoris or use sex toys like clitoral vibrators.

Cunillingus is much simpler than fellatio. Kiss your partner's clitoris, gently suck it and caress it with your tongue.

Some women like side-to-side motions where the clitoris slips out the tongue left and right. You can kiss the area between the clitoris and the entrance to the vagina as well as the entrance itself. Actually you can do everything your partner enjoys. The main thing is to make sure your partner likes what you are doing. How will you know?

Practice will help you. The more often you practice oral sex the more discoveries you are going to make. And be careful. Pay great attention to your partner's reaction. Does she enjoy what you are doing? Maybe you should do something else? And don’t be ashamed of speaking to her about it. Ask her what she likes and what she doesn’t. Do you remember we were talking about sincerity and trust before? There is nothing a loving couple shouldn’t be able to discuss.

What women hate

The clitoris is as sensitive as the tip of the penis. Do not bite it, do not lick it too persistently and of course do not forget about the other parts of her body. Show you love her and her wonderful body!

Tip for everyone. Do you want to enjoy oral pleasure? Then don’t forget about proper hygiene! Your genitals must smell fresh!