How to use a dildo

You certainly know what a dildo is, but why don't you use it? May be you do not know how to use a dildo? Those who do not know how to use a dildo often get disappointed with this sex toy. And this is not a surprise. Anything whether it is a sex toy or something else does not work if used improperly. So if you want to get enjoyment from using this sex toy learn how to use a dildo.

However, first of all you should choose the right dildo. I mean you should choose the right type of dildo and the right material which will suit you best.

Dildo types

There is a variety of dildo types each designed for a particular purpose. Think carefully what you need a dildo for and only after than make your choice.

Realistic dildos. These sex toys are valued for their very realistic look. A realistic dildo perfectly resembles male penis with all its characteristics. Many sex toys of this type are molded from real men's penises, usually from penises of some porn stars. A realistic dildo will suit a woman who wants her sex toy to be maximum similar to real male penis.

Suction-cup dildos. The main advantage of suction cup dildos is that these sex toys have a suction cup which allows the user to attach the sex toy to a flat surface thus making it possible to enjoy hands-free masturbation.

Strap-on dildos are specially designed for being a part of harness wear. Thus it allows a partner to penetrate with a dildo hands-free. Of course, this sex toy will be a nice sex toy for a couple who wants to enrich their sexual experience.

Double ended dildosare sex toys with both ends designed for penetration. Thus it is clear that this sex toy can be used by lesbians for sharing or for couples for simultaneous vaginal and anal penetration.

Now that you have chosen the right dildo type you should choose the material.

Dildo materials

Material your sex toy is made of does matter, because it influences such important issues as your sensations lifespan of your sex toy, cost, cleaning and care and many other things.

Dildos are available in a variety of materials, such as silicone, latex, plastic, jelly, rubber and others. Each of these materials has its advantages and disadvantages. For more detailed information on dildo materials see our Sex Toys Guide and make choose a dildo which will suit you best.

So, now perhaps you wish to know what you can use a dildo for. In fact there are plenty of purposes.

Ways to use a dildo

Before getting to know how to use a dildo you should find out what for you can use this sex toy. I will suggest you only a few purposes

1.Female masturbation

2.Mutual masturbation

4.Getting ready for intercourse (using a dildo during foreplay for getting aroused enough)

5. Helping a woman to achieve orgasm if the male partner orgasmed too early

6. Pegging - it implies penetrating a man anally with a strap-on sex toy

7. Lesbian sex (strap on dildos and double ended dildos)

8. Gay sex (strap-ons and double ended dildos)

Do not think that these are the only possible ways to use a dildo. Find your own ones, explore your fantasy!

How to use a dildo properly

As it has been said above it is very important to know how to use a dildo properly. You might buy the right type of dildo, you might choose the right material, but without knowing how to use a dildo properly you will never get real enjoyment.

Below you will find some tips which will help you to get maximum enjoyment from using your favorite dildo.

1.Lubrication. To make use of your dildo easy and very enjoyable use especial lubricants, because some materials do not glide slow enough. As well you should keep in mind that a dildo, unlike a penis does not have natural lubrication. Do have a lube to use it every time you use a dildo or any other sex toy, especially one designed for anal penetration.

2. Arousal first. First of all you should get aroused enough and only than insert the dildo, otherwise you will not find playing with your dildo enjoyable enough. Stimulate your erogenous zones or have your partner do this if using a dildo during partner sex.

3. Slow insertion. Insert your dildo slowly, do not hurry, otherwise insertion might seem quite painful and uncomfortable.

4. Have fun. Do anything you want, there are no rules. Insert the entire dildo or only a half of it, put it deeper or shallower, enjoy fast or slow motions. Enjoy every moment of playing with your sex toy.

Now you know how to use a dildo properly, and nothing can prevent you from exciting and incredibly enjoyable play. Have fun!