Erotic massage for him

Pleasant sexual experience can take various forms. But if you really want to have a strong affinity with your partner, it's worth learning erotic massage basics to find your way to his body and soul. Most men know hot buttons of a woman: clitoris, breasts, lips, vaginal opening etc. What can be said about men in this regard?

If you want to expand your knowledge of love secrets and arrange a special evening for him, try and discover an art of erotic massage. One of the most important things is to rely on each other on a close intimate level and let your imagination attune with his mood and feelings.

Getting relaxed

Shower

Start with taking warm shower. It can be a best setting before the main actions, if he is not set to the right mood yet. Rub his back and then softly massage his head with the shampoo. Neck shouldn't be ignored either. Don't forget about his temples and face, they deserve paying attention too.

Good setting

When you finally move to your bedroom, he will be already relaxed for more. Right setting will ensure that nothing will disturb you from this enjoyable play. Such details as candles, warm room temperature, his favorite soothing music, soft blanket will create a dreamy atmosphere for both of you.

Lubrication

It's a good idea to keep different sorts of lubes and oils at your side. It's better to use water-based lubricant ,when you suppose that you are going to apply one on men genitals. If you know that your partner will be using condom, you should avoid oil-based lubes, which damage latex.

There are a lot of different kinds of massaging oils and lotions which may add spice to your partner's sensations. If you don't know where to start, you may examine sex toys shop where you can make a choice in regard to the scent and texture. Apply the lube again, if necessary in order to give your movements a good slide.

Massage techniques

1. Hands and legs massage will bring your partner to a good relaxation. Trigger points massage is very effective for the beginning. If you are unaware of all peculiarities of such massaging technique, just try to press the whole area on his hand and then go to his feet fingers. You should know that fingers on men's feet are very sensitive and receptive to any stimulation.
2. Playfully have your partner lie on his belly and suggest him caressing his body. He is unlikely to have any objections. Sit over your partner and start from soft strokes, gradually intensifying your moves. Start with the lower back- here you will find an important erogenous zone, which is located above the tailbone. Another area that deserves your attention is area, which is found between shoulder- blades.
3. Change from massaging his spots with fingers to caressing him with your tongue and lips. Unless he is made of stone such strokes can bring forth a volcano. For example, you may walk with your fingers over his neck while giving him soft kisses. If this is not enough for a good arousal you may experiment with different sex toys, like vibrators to create those very intense sensations.
4. It's high time to proceed to more intense stimulation. Touch the area under his belly with your finger tips. You may put your hand here or just kiss it with your lips and tongue. Play with his buttocks: all kinds of strokes, tingles, little bites and pats are welcome.
5. When every inch of his body will be explored and caressed, it will be the time to favor his genitals. As a head of the penis is abundant in nerve endings, you can make sure that this part will accept all your touch-ups. Most men hang up if a woman strokes his scrotum. You should follow the rule of happy medium when caressing this area: soft and tender touch is more preferable than stronger one. If you want strong and sure erection suggest him to use sex toys, which where designed to compensate for the lack of intense stimulation, like cock rings.
6. Underneath the testicles you will find an intriguing erogenous zone called perineum, which is close to the anus. Many women try to avoid touching here due to common prejudiced attitude, though it would be highly mistaken not to glide this zone with your fingertips and your tongue.
7. And last but not the least: touch his body with all your affection as due to this touches he feels loved. Search for more sex centers of your partner and make your sexual life an adventure, where boredom couldn't set in.