Anal Sex for Beginners

Those who never tried anal sex certainly should try it, at least because it will considerably enrich their sex experience. Anal sex is not painful, neither it is "dirty" as many people might think. More, it can be even enjoyable if you do everything properly and get yourself ready for this new sex experience.

First of all get rid of prejudices, such as: anal sex is "dirty"; only gays practice it and all this kind of foolish stuff. Such an attitude towards anal sex guarantees no pleasure from it! Just think - if so many people enjoy anal sex, then may be there is something enjoyable about it? At least it is worth trying! No one will condemn you if you do not find it pleasurable and decide not to have it any longer.

Now, get yourself ready for your first anal experience. Getting ready for your first anal intercourse implies some exercises you can do on your own in order to be already accustomed with the feelings it can bring. This will make you feel prepared for anal sex with your partner.

Exercises For the Anus

These exercises are designed for a few purposes:

• To learn to relax during anal intercourse
• To make your anus accustomed to penetration
• To make sure anal sex is enjoyable

What will you have to do?

Exercise 1. Finger play

1.Masturbate. Masturbation contributes to arousal which will decrease painful sensations you might have for the first time you practice anal stimulation. But do not overdo masturbation! Your goal is only to arouse yourself!

2.Insert a finger. Fingers are thin and sensitive, that is why you should first of all try to insert a finger.

Note. Two things you should necessarily do before inserting a finger - wash your hands and cut your nails, otherwise you will inevitably find anal stimulation dirty and painful!

Choose a comfortable position, for example like this one - lie on your back with your legs up and apart. Then massage the anus with your lubricated finger. Do not think you can do it without lubrication! Do not be too lazy to purchase anal lube, otherwise do not accuse those who declare anal sex painless of lying.

Now try to insert the finger. Stop as soon as you feel your anus contract! Try to relax. Did you manage to relax? Then go on inserting. Your purpose is to get rid of instinctive contraction of the sphincter. Perhaps at this stage you will manage to insert the finger.

Have you already inserted it? Then with circular motions try to insert it deeper. Be gentle and try not to contract the sphincter. Make it feel relaxed with your finger inside!

If you did not manage to insert the finger then try to relax again and do it like when you (sorry) defecate. Your anus will open and your finger will slide inside easily. At this moment your sphincter is very likely to contract. Stop! Relax it!

Exercise 2. Anal toys

Now that you learned to relax during anal penetration you can get down to inserting larger objects into your anus. Now try to play with an anal toy.

There are plenty of various anal toys, but we are going to speak about those which have the shape of a penis.

We recommend you to use for this purpose butt plugs.

Butt plugs are anal toys designed for insertion and to create pleasurable sensation of fullness in anus. Butt plugs come in various shapes and colors as well as materials. For more detailed information see our Sex Toys Guide.

Butt plugs are designed specially for anal stimulation. They perfectly fill your anus thus stimulating sensitive nervous endings inside it. Butt plugs have a flared base which will not allow the toy to be lost in the rectum.

What should you do with a butt plug? Actually, the same as with your fingers. Gradually insert a butt plug in your anus trying to stay relaxed. You will realize that anal stimulation can be very enjoyable!

Do not forget about lubrication!

After you learn to get pleasure from anal stimulation with anal toys you will certainly find partner anal sex a great fun! And you will be eager to explore your anal fantasy!

Anal sex is a great field to experiment! Try various anal sex positions, try cute anal toys - anal vibrators, anal beads or other anal toys! Experiment and have fun!

Our choice

Silicone ultra probe - this is a perfect toy for a beginner. This nice looking silicone butt plug will perfectly fill your anus and will make your anal fantasies come true.

Anal stuffer - a cute anal toy for a first timer. This anal toy with thinner shaft is very comfortable in use and gives you incredibly enjoyable anal stimulation.